I like getting encouragement. I like it more than getting critiques. Encouragement feels better and actually results in me working more effectively.
I believe in the power of encouragement, so I want to encourage others. One way I encourage others is by listening to what they say. And one way I demonstrate that I’m listening is by restating what the other person has been saying. Through restatement I show I’ve been listening and that I want to understand. For example, I might say, “If I understand correctly, you’re saying that ___. Is that right?”
Question: How often do you use restatement to encourage others?
- Consistently?
- Usually?
- Sometimes?
- Rarely?
Strive to consistently use restatement to encourage others. To encourage others, say things like: So what I think I hear you saying is ___. Is that right?
Question: What action steps will you take to ensure that you consistently encourage others through restatement?
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